Story of everyone, About relationships and love

I use to think my problems are big in my life, no partner is living with me, and my son is loving me but I am not able to express my love to him. when talking with my friends they share their problems are equally big, when seeing every problem from our angle all issues might seem big isn't it? When we can come out of the problem then the magnitude of any problem might seem less, at least we think problems in every life are inevitable we start accepting our problems as it is. I remember the best quote for overcoming our problem is "let go". Problems in everyone's life are inevitable and we need to "accept them".

In another discussion we have regarding the female need for a partner to share their feelings, I can agree with that point, that sharing their views is not happening to both men and women. if both genders are not ready to accept the fact that our partners are not trustworthy it is better to stay alone and better to get prepared for living alone, isn't it? When we start fighting the battle alone we learn to come across many challenges and we see new personalities in us, we start developing the courage in us. The path is really hard but worthy because every relationship will not always give happiness as expected by another person. Learning to stay alone could be an ideal path when we don't find the right partner for us.

Now I need to care for my mother it is my responsibility, after I need may find a new partner what if I have difficulty with that partner. Again, I may go through problems in the understanding right, better I can choose to stay alone which will not hurt my feelings and emotions. I never say this is the right path, depends on the partner you have in your life.

When I tell staying alone means, not like a monk or sage, you can be a very good friend to others but you are not ready to share personal space with others. Until you find the right partner you can be a very best friend.